Healing and Forgiveness
Forgiveness and Healing
Forgiveness in the way I use it in the healing and coaching work I do with my clients is a little different. Forgiveness is done for you, not for the one you are forgiving. Forgiveness is unentangling you from the pain and harm that someone has caused you from their behaviour and or actions. It does not make what they did right or okay, not at all. They are responsible for their choices that caused harm, for their behaviour, their actions and for working on themselves to make sure it does not happen again. Their healing is their responsibility and your healing is yours. You are forgiving to set yourself free from the pain of their behaviour and actions. You forgive because you deserve to heal, to be free of the pain and suffering, to feel peace and to live a life you love. So give yourself permission to forgive so that you can heal yourself for yourself and be free.